Trying to conceive

Your cycle, gently explained

Where you are today, what your body is doing in this phase, and how to get ready — no pressure, no jargon.

Preparing your body

What guidance generally suggests before conception. Tap any topic to see the full Trimestly check.

Supplements

Start before you conceive — the first weeks of pregnancy matter most.

  • Take folic acid 400mcg daily

    Widely recommended from at least one month before trying until the end of the first trimester.

    Check folic acid
  • Check your vitamin D

    Many guidelines suggest 10mcg (400 IU) daily, especially in winter or with darker skin.

    Check vitamin D
  • Consider a prenatal with iodine and DHA

    A simple prenatal covers the gaps folic acid alone doesn't.

    Check prenatal vitamin
  • Review any supplements or herbs you already take

    Some popular ones — like ashwagandha or high-dose green tea extract — aren't recommended once trying.

    Check ashwagandha

Food & drink

Small habits that lower risk before and after conception.

  • Cut out alcohol

    Guidance is clearest for complete avoidance once you could be pregnant.

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  • Keep caffeine under about 200mg a day

    Roughly one to two small coffees — check tea, cola and chocolate too.

    Check coffee
  • Practise food-safety habits

    Choose pasteurised dairy and cook meat, eggs and seafood all the way through.

    Check soft cheese
  • Limit high-mercury fish

    Mercury lingers in the body for months, so this one starts before conception.

    Check tuna

Body & lifestyle

Everyday things that support conception.

  • Stop smoking and nicotine

    Including vaping — your pharmacist or doctor can help with a quit plan.

    Check nicotine
  • Keep up gentle, regular movement

    Walking, swimming, yoga — whatever you'll actually keep doing.

  • Prioritise sleep

    Aim for a consistent routine; it supports hormone regulation.

  • Skip hot tubs and saunas — for your partner too

    Heat affects sperm for weeks, not just the moment.

    Check hot tub

Health

Conversations worth having before a positive test.

  • Review your medications with a doctor

    Don't stop anything prescribed — ask which ones are fine while trying.

    Check ibuprofen
  • Book a dental check-up

    Gum health is linked to pregnancy outcomes, and treatment is easier before.

    Check dental x-ray
  • Check your vaccinations

    Rubella immunity matters before conception; flu and whooping cough come up during pregnancy.

    Check flu shot
  • Know when to ask for help

    Under 35: after 12 months of trying. 35 or over: after 6 months. Sooner if cycles are irregular.

Trying for a while? Guidance generally suggests speaking with a doctor after 12 months of trying if you're under 35, or after 6 months if you're 35 or over — sooner if your cycles are irregular or something worries you.

Trimestly offers educational decision support, not a diagnosis. Nothing here is a promise that something is completely safe — check anything important with your doctor, midwife or pharmacist.